Welcome to the Birthday office site , I originally came up with the idea while baby sitting for a house mate , her daughter [5 going on 6 ], upset about something , was beginning a crying jag .
Off the top of my head I explained the birthday office. The reaction was so immediate and complete I told her mother when she came in . The mother told "Granny" and several mothers of friends , who all used it for the next month or so with excellant results .
I hope it works for you . JT